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25 flirty questions for couples

These questions are playful and romantic. They're about attraction, kisses, date nights and the little moments you never said out loud. Ask them when it's just the two of you.

How to play

  1. Answer on your own

    Pick a question. You each answer without seeing the other's answer. Write it down or keep it in your head.

  2. Guess your partner's answer

    Before you share, guess what your partner said. On pick-one questions, guess which option they chose.

  3. Reveal together

    Share both answers at the same time. See who guessed right, then talk about why.

Duotone's Play tab works the same way. You each answer on your own phone, guess your partner's pick, and see both answers once you've both answered.

The questions

  1. 1.

    What's something I do that you find really attractive?

  2. 2.

    When did you last want to kiss me but didn't?

  3. 3.

    What outfit of mine is your favorite?

  4. 4.

    What's the most romantic thing you'd love me to do for you?

  5. 5.

    Describe your perfect date night, from start to finish.

  6. 6.

    What's a compliment from me that stuck with you?

  7. 7.

    What's your favorite way to be kissed?

  8. 8.

    Where's the most unexpected place you've thought about me?

  9. 9.

    What's a surprise you'd love me to plan for just the two of us?

  1. 10.

    What's something new you'd like us to try together?

  2. 11.

    What do you think about when you can't sleep and I'm not there?

  3. 12.

    What's the most flirty message you've ever wanted to send me?

  4. 13.

    What's a moment you found me impossible to resist?

  5. 14.

    What makes you feel most desired by me?

  6. 15.

    What's your favorite memory of a night together?

  7. 16.

    If tonight had no rules, what would we do?

  8. 17.

    What's one thing you've always wanted to tell me, but felt shy about?

  9. 18.

    What song sets the mood for you?

  10. 19.

    What's a little fantasy date you've never told me about?

  11. 20.

    What's the best kiss we've ever had, and why?

  12. 21.

    Who's the bigger flirt?

    • Me
    • You
  13. 22.

    Best time for romance?

    • Morning
    • Afternoon
    • Late night
  14. 23.

    Candlelight or city lights?

    • Candlelight
    • City lights
  15. 24.

    What gets you in the mood fastest?

    • A long kiss
    • Sweet words
    • A slow dance
    • A surprise
  16. 25.

    Who usually makes the first move?

    • Me
    • You
    • Depends on the night

Play these together in Duotone

Answer on your own, guess your partner's answer, then reveal together. A new question for you two every day, right on your Home Screen.

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Frequently asked questions

What makes a question flirty?

A flirty question is playful and a little personal. It tells your partner you notice them: what they wear, how they kiss, the moments you find them hard to resist.

How personal do these questions get?

They're romantic and playful, never graphic. Each of you can skip any question you'd rather not answer.

When should we use flirty questions?

Try them on a date night, a slow morning or a late call when you're apart. They're an easy way to break the routine when life gets busy.

Can we play these in Duotone?

Yes. This list is a question pack in Duotone's Play tab. You can try the first question for free. The full pack comes with Duotone Premium, and one subscription covers you both.