Questions for couples
60 fun questions for couples
These are light, everyday questions about your day, your habits and the small things you love about each other. They work over dinner, on a walk or by text. Pick one a day and see how well you know each other.
How to play
Answer on your own
Pick a question. You each answer without seeing the other's answer. Write it down or keep it in your head.
Guess your partner's answer
Before you share, guess what your partner said. On pick-one questions, guess which option they chose.
Reveal together
Share both answers at the same time. See who guessed right, then talk about why.
Duotone's Play tab works the same way. You each answer on your own phone, guess your partner's pick, and see both answers once you've both answered.
The questions
- 1.
What was the best part of your day?
- 2.
What's one thing that made you smile today?
- 3.
What's something small I did recently that you loved?
- 4.
What song would you play for me right now?
- 5.
What would make this weekend perfect?
- 6.
What's a food you could eat with me every week?
- 7.
What's your favorite memory of us from this year?
- 8.
What's one thing you want to tell me but haven't yet?
- 9.
What do you love about how we spend our evenings?
- 10.
What's a habit of mine you secretly like?
- 11.
When did you last feel really proud of me?
- 12.
What's a place you'd love to show me?
- 13.
What's the funniest thing that's happened to us?
- 14.
What's one thing I could do this week to make your day easier?
- 15.
What's a movie you'd happily watch again with me?
- 16.
What was your first impression of me?
- 17.
What's a compliment you've never told me?
- 18.
What's something you're looking forward to this month?
- 19.
If we had a free day tomorrow, what would we do first?
- 20.
What's a smell that reminds you of me?
- 21.
What's the sweetest message I've ever sent you?
- 22.
What's one thing you'd like more of in our week?
- 23.
What's a tiny tradition you'd like us to start?
- 24.
What's something you've learned from me?
- 25.
Where do you feel most relaxed with me?
- 26.
What's your go-to comfort show right now?
- 27.
What would your perfect breakfast with me look like?
- 28.
What's one word that describes us today?
- 29.
What's a skill you'd love us to learn together?
- 30.
What made you think of me today?
- 31.
What's a small win you had this week?
- 32.
What's your favorite photo of us, and why?
- 33.
What's a question you wish people asked you more?
- 34.
What's one thing that always cheers you up?
- 35.
What's a dish you'd love me to cook for you?
- 36.
When do you feel closest to me?
- 37.
What's a dream you had recently that you remember?
- 38.
What's something you're grateful for today?
- 39.
What's your favorite way to say "I love you" without words?
- 40.
What's a trip we've taken that you'd do again tomorrow?
- 41.
Tonight: movie at home or dinner out?
- Movie at home
- Dinner out
- 42.
Which sounds better right now?
- A long nap
- A long walk
- 43.
Our ideal Sunday morning?
- Sleep in
- Up early together
- 44.
Pick a snack for movie night.
- Popcorn
- Chocolate
- Chips
- Fruit
- 45.
Who texts first more often?
- Me
- You
- About equal
- 46.
Who is the better cook?
- Me
- You
- We're both a disaster
- 47.
Which would you rather plan together?
- A beach trip
- A city trip
- A mountain trip
- 48.
How do you prefer to make up after an argument?
- Talk it through right away
- Take some space first
- A hug, then talk
- 49.
Who fell for the other first?
- Me
- You
- At the same time
- 50.
What's our best kind of date?
- Food
- Adventure
- Staying in
- Something new
- 51.
Who is more likely to forget an important date?
- Me
- You
- Neither of us
- 52.
Morning person or night owl?
- Morning person
- Night owl
- 53.
Who takes longer to get ready?
- Me
- You
- 54.
Which gift would make you happiest?
- Something handmade
- An experience
- A surprise trip
- A long letter
- 55.
How do you most like to feel loved?
- Kind words
- Quality time
- Gifts
- Help with things
- Touch
- 56.
Who is the bigger romantic?
- Me
- You
- 57.
Rainy day plan?
- Blankets and a series
- Board games
- Cooking together
- Go out anyway
- 58.
Which would you choose for our next anniversary?
- Fancy dinner
- Weekend away
- Quiet night at home
- 59.
Who apologizes first?
- Me
- You
- Whoever was wrong
- 60.
Coffee or tea with me?
- Coffee
- Tea
- Neither
