Questions for couples
25 long-distance relationship questions
Distance changes what you talk about. These questions are about missing each other, your next visit and the life you'll share in one place. Answer them on a call, by text or in a voice note.
How to play
Answer on your own
Pick a question. You each answer without seeing the other's answer. Write it down or keep it in your head.
Guess your partner's answer
Before you share, guess what your partner said. On pick-one questions, guess which option they chose.
Reveal together
Share both answers at the same time. See who guessed right, then talk about why.
Duotone's Play tab works the same way. You each answer on your own phone, guess your partner's pick, and see both answers once you've both answered.
The questions
- 1.
What's the first thing you want to do when we see each other again?
- 2.
What do you miss most about being in the same place?
- 3.
What helps you most on the days you miss me?
- 4.
What's your favorite call we've ever had?
- 5.
What's something in your day you wish I could see?
- 6.
What's a small thing I could send you that would make your week?
- 7.
Where do you want our next meetup to be?
- 8.
What's the hardest part of the distance for you right now?
- 9.
What's a ritual we could do at the same time from two places?
- 10.
What does your room look like right now? Describe it.
- 11.
What's a song that makes the miles feel shorter?
- 12.
What should we watch together at the same time this week?
- 13.
What's one thing you want us to stop doing on calls, and one to start?
- 14.
When do you feel closest to me even though we're apart?
- 15.
What's the best thing about us that the distance can't touch?
- 16.
What do you picture when you imagine us living in one place?
- 17.
What's a meal you want to cook for me when we're together?
- 18.
What's something about my city you're curious about?
- 19.
How can I make the goodbyes easier?
- 20.
What's a memory from our last visit you keep replaying?
- 21.
Best way to stay close this week?
- Video call
- Voice notes
- Watch something together
- Play a game
- 22.
Our next visit should be…
- At your place
- At my place
- Somewhere new
- Halfway
- 23.
Good-night call: short and sweet or until we fall asleep?
- Short and sweet
- Until we fall asleep
- 24.
What do you look forward to most when we meet?
- The first hug
- Cooking together
- Doing nothing together
- Exploring together
- 25.
How often should we have a proper date call?
- Every week
- Twice a month
- Whenever we can
