Questions for couples
36 would you rather questions for couples
Two choices, no easy answers. These would you rather questions are about dates, trips, home and the little habits of being a couple. Pick yours, guess your partner's, then see who knows who better.
How to play
Answer on your own
Pick a question. You each answer without seeing the other's answer. Write it down or keep it in your head.
Guess your partner's answer
Before you share, guess what your partner said. On pick-one questions, guess which option they chose.
Reveal together
Share both answers at the same time. See who guessed right, then talk about why.
Duotone's Play tab works the same way. You each answer on your own phone, guess your partner's pick, and see both answers once you've both answered.
The questions
- 1.
Would you rather relive our first date or see a day from our future?
- Relive our first date
- See a day from our future
- 2.
Would you rather travel the world together or build a dream home together?
- Travel the world
- Build a dream home
- 3.
Would you rather always know what I'm thinking or always know what I'm feeling?
- What you're thinking
- What you're feeling
- 4.
Would you rather have a weekly date night or a monthly weekend away?
- Weekly date night
- Monthly weekend away
- 5.
Would you rather get a love letter every day or a surprise every month?
- A letter every day
- A surprise every month
- 6.
Would you rather live by the sea or in the mountains with me?
- By the sea
- In the mountains
- 7.
Would you rather cook dinner together every night or never cook again?
- Cook together every night
- Never cook again
- 8.
Would you rather have a song written about us or a painting of us?
- A song
- A painting
- 9.
Would you rather go on a spontaneous trip tonight or a perfectly planned one next month?
- Spontaneous, tonight
- Planned, next month
- 10.
Would you rather we always agree or always make up quickly?
- Always agree
- Always make up quickly
- 11.
Would you rather have a pet together or a garden together?
- A pet
- A garden
- 12.
Would you rather spend a day in our future or a day in our past?
- Our future
- Our past
- 13.
Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or sing in the car?
- Slow dance in the kitchen
- Sing in the car
- 14.
Would you rather receive a long hug or a sweet note?
- A long hug
- A sweet note
- 15.
Would you rather have breakfast together every day or dinner together every day?
- Breakfast
- Dinner
- 16.
Would you rather win a trip for two or a year of free dinners for two?
- A trip for two
- A year of dinners
- 17.
Would you rather we learn a language together or an instrument together?
- A language
- An instrument
- 18.
Would you rather know every one of my secrets or keep a little mystery?
- Know every secret
- Keep a little mystery
- 19.
Would you rather have a big group of couple friends or one close couple?
- A big group
- One close couple
- 20.
Would you rather plan every date or be surprised by every date?
- Plan every date
- Be surprised
- 21.
Would you rather spend a rainy day in bed or a sunny day outside?
- Rainy day in bed
- Sunny day outside
- 22.
Would you rather read my diary or have me read yours?
- Read yours
- You read mine
- 23.
Would you rather redo our first kiss or our first trip?
- Our first kiss
- Our first trip
- 24.
Would you rather we have matching tattoos or matching rings?
- Matching tattoos
- Matching rings
- 25.
Would you rather live in a tiny house together or a big house far from the city?
- Tiny house
- Big house, far away
- 26.
Would you rather talk for an hour or sit in comfortable silence for an hour?
- Talk for an hour
- Comfortable silence
- 27.
Would you rather give up dessert or give up coffee for a month with me?
- Give up dessert
- Give up coffee
- 28.
Would you rather go stargazing or watch the sunrise together?
- Stargazing
- Sunrise
- 29.
Would you rather be famous together or happy and unknown together?
- Famous together
- Happy and unknown
- 30.
Would you rather we write our own vows or keep them traditional?
- Write our own
- Keep them traditional
- 31.
Would you rather get a handwritten letter from me or a video message from me?
- Handwritten letter
- Video message
- 32.
Would you rather visit every country together or live in three different ones?
- Visit every country
- Live in three
- 33.
Would you rather always have the last word or always get the last hug?
- The last word
- The last hug
- 34.
Would you rather have a picnic in the park or a candlelit dinner at home?
- Picnic in the park
- Candlelit dinner at home
- 35.
Would you rather relive your favorite day with me or create a brand-new one?
- Relive my favorite
- Create a new one
- 36.
Would you rather we never argue about money or never argue about chores?
- Never about money
- Never about chores
