Questions for couples
40 this or that questions for couples
Quick picks, a word or two each. This or that questions are easy to answer and easy to get wrong about your partner. Make your pick, guess theirs, and see how well you really know each other.
How to play
Answer on your own
Pick a question. You each answer without seeing the other's answer. Write it down or keep it in your head.
Guess your partner's answer
Before you share, guess what your partner said. On pick-one questions, guess which option they chose.
Reveal together
Share both answers at the same time. See who guessed right, then talk about why.
Duotone's Play tab works the same way. You each answer on your own phone, guess your partner's pick, and see both answers once you've both answered.
The questions
- 1.
Beach or mountains?
- Beach
- Mountains
- 2.
Sunrise or sunset?
- Sunrise
- Sunset
- 3.
Cook at home or order in?
- Cook at home
- Order in
- 4.
Big wedding or small wedding?
- Big wedding
- Small wedding
- 5.
Texts or calls?
- Texts
- Calls
- 6.
Road trip or flight?
- Road trip
- Flight
- 7.
Cats or dogs?
- Cats
- Dogs
- 8.
Sweet or savory?
- Sweet
- Savory
- 9.
Plan everything or go with the flow?
- Plan everything
- Go with the flow
- 10.
City life or small town?
- City life
- Small town
- 11.
Summer or winter?
- Summer
- Winter
- 12.
Surprise party or quiet birthday?
- Surprise party
- Quiet birthday
- 13.
Breakfast in bed or brunch out?
- Breakfast in bed
- Brunch out
- 14.
Comedy or thriller?
- Comedy
- Thriller
- 15.
Handwritten letter or voice note?
- Handwritten letter
- Voice note
- 16.
Dance or karaoke?
- Dance
- Karaoke
- 17.
Pizza or biryani?
- Pizza
- Biryani
- 18.
Matching outfits or never?
- Matching outfits
- Never
- 19.
Early dinner or late dinner?
- Early dinner
- Late dinner
- 20.
Museum or theme park?
- Museum
- Theme park
- 21.
Gym together or walk together?
- Gym together
- Walk together
- 22.
Spontaneous trip or planned holiday?
- Spontaneous trip
- Planned holiday
- 23.
Old photos or new adventures?
- Old photos
- New adventures
- 24.
Board games or video games?
- Board games
- Video games
- 25.
Flowers or chocolates?
- Flowers
- Chocolates
- 26.
Talk all night or sleep early?
- Talk all night
- Sleep early
- 27.
Rain or sunshine?
- Rain
- Sunshine
- 28.
Big group of friends or a few close ones?
- Big group
- A few close ones
- 29.
Street food or fine dining?
- Street food
- Fine dining
- 30.
Window seat or aisle seat?
- Window seat
- Aisle seat
- 31.
Morning cuddles or night cuddles?
- Morning cuddles
- Night cuddles
- 32.
Save for a house or spend on travel?
- Save for a house
- Spend on travel
- 33.
Netflix or YouTube?
- Netflix
- YouTube
- 34.
Camping or hotel?
- Camping
- Hotel
- 35.
Ice cream or cake?
- Ice cream
- Cake
- 36.
Public proposal or private proposal?
- Public
- Private
- 37.
Long hug or long kiss?
- Long hug
- Long kiss
- 38.
Bookstore date or café date?
- Bookstore
- Café
- 39.
Clean as you go or clean it all later?
- Clean as you go
- Clean it all later
- 40.
Music on or silence on a drive?
- Music on
- Silence
