Questions for couples
30 date night questions for couples
Can't decide what to do tonight? These questions help you pick your next date together: stay in or go out, what to eat, what to watch, where to spend a free Saturday. Pick on your own, then compare. When you both pick the same thing, it's a plan.
How to play
Answer on your own
Pick a question. You each answer without seeing the other's answer. Write it down or keep it in your head.
Guess your partner's answer
Before you share, guess what your partner said. On pick-one questions, guess which option they chose.
Reveal together
Share both answers at the same time. See who guessed right, then talk about why.
Duotone's Play tab works the same way. You each answer on your own phone, guess your partner's pick, and see both answers once you've both answered.
The questions
- 1.
This weekend: stay in or go out?
- Stay in
- Go out
- 2.
Pick tonight's dinner.
- Cook together
- Order in
- Try somewhere new
- Our usual place
- 3.
Movie night: what are we watching?
- Rom-com
- Thriller
- Something animated
- A show we binge
- 4.
Coffee date or cocktail date?
- Coffee
- Cocktails
- 5.
Pick a free date.
- Long walk
- Picnic
- Stargazing
- Free museum day
- 6.
Adventure date?
- Hike
- Climbing gym
- Kayaking
- Go-karts
- 7.
Cozy night in?
- Blanket fort and a movie
- Bath and face masks
- Puzzle and wine
- Bake something
- 8.
Make something together.
- Pottery class
- Paint night
- Cooking class
- Build something
- 9.
Live music or comedy show?
- Live music
- Comedy show
- 10.
Brunch date or late-night dessert run?
- Brunch
- Late-night dessert
- 11.
Game night: what are we playing?
- Board game
- Video game
- Cards
- Trivia night out
- 12.
Day trip or staycation?
- Day trip
- Staycation
- 13.
Dress up or come as you are?
- Dress up
- Come as you are
- 14.
Pick a throwback date.
- Recreate our first date
- Arcade
- Roller skating
- Drive-in movie
- 15.
Sunrise date or sunset date?
- Sunrise
- Sunset
- 16.
Try a new cuisine?
- Ethiopian
- Korean BBQ
- Peruvian
- Lebanese
- 17.
Who plans the next date?
- Me
- You
- We plan it together
- Surprise each other
- 18.
Spa day or sports day?
- Spa day
- Sports day
- 19.
Farmers market or flea market?
- Farmers market
- Flea market
- 20.
A night with no phones?
- Yes, let's do it
- Phones on silent
- Maybe next time
- 21.
Pick a cheap and sweet date.
- Ice cream walk
- Thrift-store challenge
- Sunset drive
- Cook a fancy dinner at home
- 22.
Bookstore date or record-store date?
- Bookstore
- Record store
- 23.
Volunteer together for a day?
- Animal shelter
- Food bank
- Park cleanup
- Not this month
- 24.
Next big date: what's the splurge?
- Fancy dinner
- Concert tickets
- Weekend away
- A class we both want
- 25.
Describe your perfect date in three words.
- 26.
What's a date we keep saying we'll do but never have?
- 27.
Which of our dates would you happily do again?
- 28.
Plan a date for under $20. Go.
- 29.
What's a place nearby you've always wanted to take me?
- 30.
If we had a whole free Saturday, how would you spend it with me?
